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IliveinthelandofDisney，Hollywoodandyearroundsun。
Youmaythinkeoleinsuchaglamorous，funfilledlacearehaierthanothers。
Ifso，youhavesomemistakesaboutthenatureofhainess。
Manyintelligenteolestillequatehainesswithfun。
Thetruthisthatfunandhainesshavelittleornothingincommon。
Funiswhatweexerienceduringanact。
Hainessiswhatweexerienceafteranact。
Itisdeeer，moreabidingemotion。
Thewayeoleclingtothebeliefthatafunfilled，ainfreelifeequalshainessactuallydiminishes1theirchancesofeverattainingrealhainess。
Iffunandleasureareequatedwithhainess，thenainmustbeequatedwithunhainess。
Butinfact，theoositeistrue：Moretimesthannot，thingsthatleadtohainessinvolvesomeain。
Asaresult，manyeoleavoidtheveryendeavorsthatarethesourceoftreehainess。
Theyfeartheaininevitably2broughtbysuchthingsasmarriage，raisingchildren，rofessionalachievement，religiouscommitment，civicorcharitable3work，andself-imrovement。
Askabachelorwhyheresistsmarriageeventhoughhefindsdatingtobelessandlesssatisfying。
Ifheshonest，hewilltellyouthatheisafraidofmakingacommitment。
Forcommitmentisinfactquiteainful。
Thesinglelifeisfilledwithfun，adventure，excitement。
Marriagehassuchmovement，buttheyarenotitsmostdistinguishingfeatures。
Similarly，couleswhochoosenottohavechildrenaredecidinginfavorofainlessfunoverainfulhainess。
Theycandineoutwhenevertheywant，travelwherevertheywantandsleeaslateastheywant。
Couleswithinfantchildrenareluckytogetawholenightssleeorathree-dayvacation。
Idontknowanyarentswouldchoosethewordfuntodescriberaisingchildren。
Butcouleswhodecidenottohavechildrenneverexeriencetheleasureof；huggingthemortuckingthemintobedatnight。
Theyneverknowthejoyofwatchingachildgrowuoroflayingwithagrandchild。
Buttheseformsoffundonotcontributeinanywaytomyhainess。
Moredifficultendeavors4—writing，raisingchildren，creatingdeerelationshiwithmywife，tryingtodogoodintheworld—willbringmemorehainessthancaneverbefoundinfun，thatleastermanentthings。
Understandingandaccetingthattruehainesshasnothingtodowithfunisoneofthemostliberatingrealizationswecanevercometo。
Itliberatestime：nowwecandevotemorehourstoactivitiesthatcangenuinelyincreaseourhainess。
Itliberatesmoney：buyingthatnewcarorthosefancyclothesthatwilldonothingtoincreaseourhainessnowseemsointless。
Anditliberatesusfromenvy：wenowunderstandthatallthoserichandglamorouseoleweweresosurearehaybecausetheyarealwayshavingsomuchfunactuallymaynotbehayatall。
Themomentweunderstandthatfundoesnotbringhainess，webegantoleadourlivesdifferently。
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